I eventually stopped going to PT. My husband and I were doing everything at home that Dr. W was doing in the office. Of course life gets in the way. Anytime any progress is made, something happens. With vaginismus, I am super prone to UTIs and infections… so it seems like any time we have intercourse, or things start looking up… something will happen that will put things on hold.
I will get sick, I will get an infection, my husband will have a big project coming up…. just life2 and the same thing happens that happened with the dilators. If I do not use them every single day, if we don’t do stretching and exercises, then we go right back to square one.
Right now (4/5/12) we have not had intercourse since 2/14/12. 2 months seems like a long time, but when I think back and remember that it took 2 years… I try not to get down about it. I am still working with my dilators, although I am not back up to Billy yet, and my husband has to stretch me every night or at least every other night. Progress is being made again, and I feel like we will probably be able to have pain free sex again by the end of the month if we stay on course with the therapy.